Kurt M. "Grady" Pendyck

Paul, Mark and Jan...My heart goes out to you all. Kurt was my oldest friend. We went back so far we were in front of ourselfs. I loved him as a brother and my heart is aching. I suppose I should find peace knowing he is with Ray and Betty, but I am struggling with that! Please know I love you all. Peace be with you!

Jan & Mark I am so sorry for your loss! I am praying for peace and comfort for you both! 

Where have all the years gone? ...countless times over the last few months I've thought of my old friend, and the coming of age years...walks along the Octorara Creek (partners in crime with Kurt and Greg Melrath), summer bike rides between Parkesburg and Steelville to meet up for a swim at the Pendycks, the fair and fireworks.    AND, plenty of UNMENTIONABLES!

So many memories for the tender hearted 13 year old girl. I loved this 'boy' with all my heart...my forever friend.

Fast forward 20+ years and the easy visits from the fisherman!  These visits always brought smiles to our faces...my parents would look for his parked car and call me saying, 'Kurtie's in the neighborhood!  Go find that boy!!" I'd head over to the Steelville bridge and holler down to him, "Don't leave before you stop and see us!"

And, then before I knew it...life got really busy and I lost track of my forever friend. I should have made the time. My heart aches that I failed to have one more word with this guy!  

You see, I have a thirteen year old daughter now...coming of age.  And, the irony is, for the last several months I've been 'remembering' my friend of yesterday, but failed to let him know.  

Please Lord, whisper in his ear and let him know that Tiffany from Steelville will never forget! And a hug for Ray and Betty, too!  

See you again one day, my forever friend.

Jan and Mark,
I am immensely saddened to hear this news. You all have been on my mind recently and the rare but always enjoyable visits we have when I get to Parkesburg. You are some of my oldest friends despite that our paths diverged so long ago. I cherish all our memories together, and with Betty and Ray. My heart goes out to you. Please call if you need someone to cry with or just to listen. I'm here for you.

Jan, I am so saddened to hear of the loss of Kurt. I know the pain having lost my oldest brother too soon years ago. Please know that I am praying for you and your family. I pray that God gives you peace and comforts you through your grief.

<3

I lost my Breath as the Word of His Death was given to me. It is hard to express the pain in my Heart so I won't try instead I will speak about the joy that my Heart felt when I heard his Voice say Auntie Bea ....how His face beamed when he told me how happy her was to see me..His demeanor when I began to speak about God.
And the sincerity in His voice when I was about to depart and I would say I love you more.
I know in my Heart that your destination is one of peace joy beauty and wholeness....so because I love you more...I smile!
Mark and Jan hold onto your Faith ot will see you through.

So shocked and saddened to hear of Grady's passing. I was hoping to go fishing with him some time. Thought I'd have plenty of time to schedule that. Last saw him about a month ago with Tucker. Had my daughter Anna with me and we were sitting at the kitchen table, talking about this and that, petting Tucker. Looked forward to seeing him again and maybe dragging him out onto a tennis court.  

Mark, Jan and family, my most sincere condolences. You are in my prayers at what must be a horribly difficult and sad time. As you know, Grady touched many of us and he made everyone he met laugh. He was one of the good ones and it sucks to have to say goodbye. I was so looking forward to many more laughs with him. 

Dear Mark & Jan,

I will never forget all the good times spent with Kurty...he was truly one of a kind.  I will never forget him.  

Lots of Love,

Dené

We were so very sorry sad to hear of this. Kurt was a great friend. I haven't seen him in many years, but will always cherish my memories of him. Jan if you see this we think of you often. God bless you all. Much love.

Jan and Mark,

I always loved seeing Kurty, or "The Duke" as I called him. When I heard this news I couldn't believe it, but will always cherish the fond memories I have of your dear brother. There for a few years we got pretty close, as he was always the best dam drummer I ever knew. We played in a band for a few years, and he would always complain about all the Dead we wanted to play...but he would play it. Most of the songs he really loved to play though. We had so much fun back then. I would see him around town from time to time, and always had to hang out with him when I did see him. He will be greatly missed and very fondly remembered.

I have alot of great memories of Kurt...He was a very nice person. When I would see Kurt in Parkesburg he always hugged me and ask how I'm doing.We would talk about our lives. I liked Kurt alot and will miss him. He was a kind,friendly,caring man. May he rest in peace... Renee Pitts

Jan, My heart aches for you! My deepest condolences to you and Mark. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. Wish that I could be there to offer comfort in person just know that I am thinking of you.

Jan and family i am so sorry for the loss of Kurt. I have such fond memories and will cherish them always. I will be lifting your family up in prayer.

To All, my deepest sorrow to the the loss of your brother. We have shared fond memories over the years in many ways. I am so sorry for your your loss and the passing of Grady.  Please be strong in this time of great sorrow. 

Losing a sibling is a lot like losing an anchor to where you come from. I feel your pain and I am praying for you...

I'm gonna miss you old friend! Grady always stopped whatever he was doing and took the time to talk to you. He'd give me tight hugs and ask about me and my daughters and of course I asked about his family. I saw him last a few month's ago and we talked for a few hours. Kurt was so very easy to talk to. Always so upbeat he quickly turned the sadness I was feeling that evening into a great time sitting outside checking out the stars and talking about the good old days. Music, the bands, Mark, the parties, cruising around the "Burg", life... I'll never forget the smiles and hugs as I left that night. His smile was contagious! I'll miss you. I'll miss that smile. I'll miss our play arguments about you calling me "dude" like he called everyone. "Hey what's up dude?" I'm sorry I'll never hear it again. Rest in peace my friend, save me a chair...

Words can not express how sorry we both are for the loss of Grady. We hold on to the many memories we've made over the years.  

Kurt...our friend, our family, you will be missed. 

Saddened to hear of Kurt's passing...wish I had gotten to known him better in high school and years after...he always had a wonderful smile and seemed to handle life with a laid back ease that is a great quality to posess.  From reading other condolences he certainly touched everyone's life and will be greatly missed.  Prayers of peace and comfort to his family and Tucker too.

My thoughts and prayers are with the Pendyck family.  I always enjoyed talking to Kurt, he  would always put a smile on your face and

make you laugh..  The last time I talked to Kurt was at the Deli when we would go out to have a cigarette. He always  talked about

his life's journey. He was a very special person and he will be missed by many. RIP Kurtie

Paul, Mark and Jan

Sorry for your loss, Kurt was a great man, neighbor and friend who will be missed. We enjoyed many great times as childern growing up on Second Avenue in Parkesburg which will never be forgotten. May those memories give you the strength needed during this difficult time. 

Benny & Kim Rigoroso

I love you Snuggly Bear.......u were my best friend, my soulmate.....you will forever be in my heart.

I hope you are having a drink with Bruce right now.....all my love, your darling Honeypuss -xoxo

Thoughts and prayers are with Kurt's family during this difficult time.  But know Ray and Betty were there to welcome him.

I grew up with kurt in Parkersburg and Through school , It came to a shock when I heard the news ..I still cant believe it..a child hood friend Gone so soon ..kurt was a down to earth easy going Guy .R.I.P my friend. . Mark ,jan, paul , I cant imagine what your going through, I pray That God comforts you during this time of need ..and Grievances. .praying in Jesus name.

To the Pendyck Family:

You are all in my thoughts and prayers and I pray your peace at this most sorrowful time. 

Please know that Kurt was a good person "who never changed.....always the same"! 

I certainly remember how he cared for his Mom, Betty during her illness (as I'm sure Mark and Jan did the same).  When I called to check on Betty and/or Ray, Kurt always filled me in on what was going on.  It was "a given" for him to greet me with a smile  when we met.  He was just that "kinda" person.   I can only imagine the joy expressed by both Ray and Betty as they met their son where there is peace, love and joy.  Rest in peace, Kurt....a good human being.  Jan and Mark reflect on all the good memories.  Love to you.

Bonnie

Sad to hear the news, Kurt was a great person. He will certainly be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with your family

Dear Jan & Mark,
I just heard the sad news about Kurt and wanted you to know how truly sorry I am. It seems like yesterday we were all hanging out in Parkesburg. I will always remember him because of his good nature, kind heart and great sense of humor. But most of all Kurt was unique, marching to the beat of his own drummer. I feel lucky to have known him.

Please know that your grief is felt by all of us who knew your brother. May God bless and comfort you, while giving you the strength you need to get through these most difficult times.

My family and I will be keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. ~ Suzan, Winky & Len Bergdoll

Dear Mark, Jan, and Paul,

     I'm so sorry to learn of Kurt's passing.  I know you are all heartbroken.  I'm so sorry for your loss.  Kurt was a good man, a great spirit and a blessing to his family.  He always made everyone laugh.  Know always you are in my prayers.  Your mom and dad also, they were wonderful people.  Rest in peace Kurtie(Grady).  You'll always be in my prayers.  I'll never forget you.          With great sadness,  sincerely,  Tammy Eckels Lorah

As I read through all the condolences, it is clear that Kurty had an impact on many of us. As like many, I was heartbroken when I heard the news and was in shock. See, Kurty and I had not spoken for awhile, in fact, years. Like many, time got away from me. Living in Florida was no easier. There were many times when I would think about him, Jan, Mark, Aunt Betty and Popeye (Ray). When I did get to visit, Kurty always greeted me with a big smile while saying my name. I'm definitely going to miss that. When I was little and Betty used to watch me, I'd sneak up to his room and play the drums. Talk about looking up to him, I thought he was so cool! These are just a few countless memories that I will cherish. I hope Kurty can find peace now. I know he's in a better place and that Aunt Betty and Popeye are looking after him. I will always remember you Kurty, I love you! My sincere condolences to the family, he will be missed.

To the family of Kurt, I am sending my condolences.  My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead. May special memories bring you comfort. Please consider the words of comfort and hope found at Acts 24:15.   Thinking of the family.

To the family of Kurt, I am sending my condolences.  My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead. May special memories bring you comfort. Please consider the words of comfort and hope found at Acts 24:15.   Thinking of the family.

Dear Mark and Jan:

My condolences on the loss of Kurt. I was out of the country and just recently found out about his passing. Please accept my sympathies, I have quite a few fond childhhod memories of him.

Dennis Young